Saturday, 28 October 2017

The Family Chalet

The Peh family is having our own chalet and BBQ at D'Resort today. I am so tired from the lack of sleep as the inconsiderate people beside our room are shouting at the top of their voice and turn up the music so loud at 3am. Had less than 5 hours of sleep and I have to head over to NTU Alumni for the Compliance training on FATCA. Tired die me.

After the training, I drove over to Frankel Avenue to pick up our BBQ orders and head back to the chalet to chill the food before we head out for lunch. So so so tired and we made further purchase for tonight's BBQ. I really cannot take it that somebody only knows how to talk big and no action. If you wanna talk big by saying you will contribute then do so and not keep quiet and still expect me to get what you need.

As night falls and everyone start to turn up from 8pm onwards how I wish Ah Ma is still coming over too. If only Ah Ma is still around and never left us at all... 






Went out to get some ice cream after our BBQ

Sunday, 17 September 2017

第49天

Today is the 第49天 since Ah Ma left us...
 
Time flies don't you think. It's already 49 days since Ah Ma left us on 31 July 2017. Although it has been some time but the pain of not being able to see Ah Ma around the house is still fresh in most of us. How I wish Ah Ma won't leave us because having her around us really makes a difference... Really sad to open up the photo album and all I can see are just her photos and that is all we have to remember her...
 
Came over to Ah Gong house in the morning and most of the people are there, especially the "Commando" old auntie who love to command everyone to do things her way and having things her way. I guess that's how things are done in the past hor. 老人说得算 haha
 
We are burning lots and lots of money for Ah Ma today. Hope Ah Ma will receive all the money that we have been folding during the 49 days and she will have enough to use. I really miss Ah Ma a lot and I really hope she can see all us here at Ah Gong house.  

Saturday, 5 August 2017

Ah Ma go Heaven le

Today's the collection of Ah Ma's ashes at Mandai and bringing Ah Ma to her new house at Bedok. Felt really sad that we can no longer see Ah Ma or hear her voice le. Everything about Ah Ma are now reduced to memories :( 

Arrived at Ah Ma's new home at Man Fatt Lam Temple along Jalan Langgar Bedok. The place is so peaceful so I'm sure Ah Ma sure will like it alot de. Ah Ma... Can you see us? Can you hear us talking to you?




Friday, 4 August 2017

Day 5 of Ah Ma Wake

I have no idea what got over me today. Maybe I just couldn't keep the frustration inside me anymore. I almost blew my top when we are moving Ah Ma off to begin her journey to another world and those "woman" brought by my that disgusting uncle kept on taking photos and filming us crying throughout the journey from beneath the block all the way to the road. 

Don't these "woman" have any parents at all? Do they not received any parental guidance as a kid that they became who they are now filming other people grandma's funeral all for money? Really felt like pushing them onto the road or shouting at them at the very moment. Felt so Xing Ku inside my chest that I wanted to burst!

I guess when people said you get to see the real and fake people during funeral wake are true. At the age of 32 I have seen more and more fake people around me that I would gladly remove them from my life. Pardon me if I am wrong but I can never smile or talk to people who are fake. Not even when we are relatives. Period. 

Ah Ma...
Ah Ma...
你一路好走...
我真的很爱你...











Thursday, 3 August 2017

Day 4 of Ah Ma Wake

Today will be the last night we have with Ah Ma ...

Haiz.. Everything happened way too sudden. Why did Ah Ma have to leave? Sometimes when no one was looking I will be calling out to Ah Ma when I am beside her, and somehow I really wished that she will respond back to me... Anything at all :(

Felt so tired both physically and mentally. Mainly due to the lack of sleep and constantly moving around to set up the tables and chairs while the other cousins are not doing much until I made some obvious unhappiness. I always think that it doesn't matter if you are the what Zhen Shun or Nei Shun or Wai Shun, we should all help out because ultimately Ah Ma took good care of us when we are all young and we should show her some gratitude :(

Felt so sad...

As if it wasn't disrespectful and a disgrace that my uncle got all his "woman" workers to take photos and videos of Ah Ma's funeral wake and uploaded it to his Facebook account for publicity on how filial he is, and how disgusting his acting was. Now he tried to pick a fight with one of the cousin who decided that he has had enough of all the filming! How disgusting of him to comment that he will get people down to beat my cousin up! I think it's really a disgrace of him. Pui...

Felt really sad that Ah Ma have to see all these unfold infront of her. How sad right when your most doted son use your funeral wake as a marketing tool and thereafter picking a fight with your grandson thinking that he is not in the wrong. Sad. Just sad...

Wednesday, 2 August 2017

Day 3 of Ah Ma Wake

Took our white shirts and pants back to wash and let it dry before we head out for our lunch. Went over to the Old Town White Coffee at the Midtown to eat the Nasi Lemak and have some garlic toast which was really nice.

To be honest, I really detest looking at some of the faces at my Ah Ma's funeral wake because all those people are just there to take photos and videos of the funeral process. Till now I couldn't figure out how can people even do such a thing and post it up on their Facebook page that is public page at all. I thought people from their generation ought to have more knowledge on such customs on what can be done or what cannot be done? 

You know I really don't quite understand why I am the one who always have to kneel down whenever there are people with more seniority coming forward to pay their respect to my Ah Ma. The reason why I said this was because I was told it has to be the sons or the direct grandsons so my brother is part of it. And I was told he has to be there 24/7 to guard the money (Bai Jing) given by people but then there are so many incidents where the money are just locked there with no one in sight to guard it. So pretty much bullshit if you asked me. I would gladly do it for Ah Ma but not when I am being bullied to do it and someone just act like a good person infront of everyone. I just couldn't take it.

Tuesday, 1 August 2017

Day 2 of Ah Ma Wake

Went to the Mcdonald's opposite our house to have our brunch together before we went over to Ah Ma's funeral wake...


Still could not come to terms that Ah Ma is no longer with us anymore... Ah Ma, i really miss you alot. I would never forget all the things that you have done for me, for us, and for those you hardly know too. You really left a deep impression to all those who know you personally. I really miss you and 我好想听到你的声音...

Spent the night talking to Ya Ling and folding all the Gim Zua for Ah Ma to use when she lives in the other world. Ah Ma, can you see us? can you hear us?

Monday, 31 July 2017

Day 1 of Ah Ma Wake

I think today everyone are still trying to accept the fact that Ah Ma has left us and will no longer be there for us anymore... Felt really sad when we the grandsons are asked to go into Ah Ma's bedroom and carry her body out of the house and down below. I really cannot take the fact that all that was left now was just Ah Ma's body and she wouldn't wake up anymore. Not even when I called out Ah Ma...


I felt so disgusted today.

I really have no idea why one of my uncle can have the cheek to get his so called workers to take photos and videos of Ah Ma's funeral wake. How can you asked people to take photos and videos of your own mother's funeral wake man! It was really disrespectful of him as a son to do that. Those so called workers are all woman dressed in inappropriate clothings appearing every now and then to take photos and videos which really pissed me off alot. Everything about him was so fake to the very last day. How can he use his own mother's funeral wake as part of his marketing tools and post it up on Facebook letting the whole world see. Don't you have any respect for your own mother at all? Every single movement made by him just puts me off and those who stand by him with no dignity. I will no longer acknowledge such a person as my uncle from this day onwards. Mark my words!


婆婆走了

Ah Ma left us this morning at 12.45am after battling the Pancreatic Carcinoma cancer for 5 months :(

Felt really devastated because we just left for home and within 30 minutes I received my GuGu's phone call that Ah Ma has left us. Couldn't stop my tears from flowing down at all. I could only remember running over to Ah Ma house and wanted to see her as fast as possible. When I got to Ah Ma house, I just stood beside Ah Ma hoping that somehow she can open her eyes and call out my name again but all that are no longer possible.


Now all that's left are memories of the times we used to have with Ah Ma. And now we have to do all the things to ensure that Ah Ma go off peacefully to a better world where she no longer have to suffer pain and the numerous injections anymore. Left Ah Ma house with a heavy heart taking her identity card and the cause of death certificate issued by the doctor to Hougang Neighbourhood Police Centre (NPC) to lodge the death certificate. Felt really sad when Ah Ma's identity card was returned to us with a punched hole :(

As most of the people went back home, dear and me stayed behind to look after Ah Ma's body. Dear just sat beside Ah Ma all the way till morning before we went over to Hougang Town Council to apply for the permit to hold the funeral wake below Ah Ma's house for 5 days.

Really couldn't believe that we will no longer hear Ah Ma's voice anymore. Her loud and strong voice when she called our names. "Xiong Xiong ah, Le Jia Ba Beh?" Really couldn't bear for her to leave us. Not so soon at least... There's so much more I wanted to talk to her...

Sunday, 25 June 2017

Trip to the Singapore Zoo

Yeah we're finally going to the Singapore Zoo again but this time round was different because we be driving there with our own car. In the past we used to take a bus to Ang Mo Kio Interchange and take the SBS bus 138 to go to the Zoo but not anymore lalala.

Wake up early morning and prepare while the girlfriend was still asleep. I guess I'm too excited hehe. Went opposite my house to have our breakfast and thereafter we drove straight to the Singapore Zoo which is just 25 minutes of journey.

We purchased our Singapore Zoo tickets online via the Carousell App, and our tickets cost just S$23.00 per person and it comes with the unlimited tram rides in the zoo too. Otherwise the usual ticket per person is S$33.00 and it does not comes with the tram rides too. What's best was we can just use show the e-tickets to the zoo personnel from our phones and enter the zoo. 









So happy that the Dinosaurs exhibits are still on display here because I already wanted to come to the Zoo when I knew about the Dinosaurs on display here like many months back hehe. We missed the Splash Safari show at 10.30am so we decided to just slowly enjoy our time here by walking and taking the tram as and when to get to the different zones here. 

The White Tiger exhibit

So sad that one of the white tiger "Omar" died on 7th June this year at the age of 17 after its health worsened due to a type of skin cancer called melanoma, which had developed on the tiger's eyelid. So now there's only two white tigers left in the enclosure.



Took the tram to bring us nearer to the Rainforest Fights Back Show at 12.30pm



The Peakcock dance :)

And so after the show we were so hungry that we can barely walk now. Took the tram to the Kidz World to have our lunch at KFC. Whenever I came here I feel disgusted by the many selfish people who will purposely hog the tables and seats instead of giving it up to others. But when it comes to me and my girlfriend, we'll always finish up our food and gestured to people to take our tables and even clear our tables for them. Sometimes I wonder why can't people be nicer to one another and not be so self-centered. 



The farm animals here at the Kidz World 


Just when everyone was enjoying the Elephants at work and play show, it started to rain very very heavily and we got no choice but to leave the place. Head over to the tram station to queue for tram ride back to the front entrance so that I can go back to the car to take our umbrella.


Hehe took the transparent plastic sheet that was left at the side of the trolley and poke 3 holes in it to form into my own personal rain coat to keep myself dry from the heavy rain lalala. Yeah, so happy that we can continue on the rest of our journey in the zoo to see the rest of the animals.




Always have that "I don't want to leave this place" feeling whenever we are leaving the zoo. I can really come here for many times in a year and won't get bored from watching the same old performance over and over again too. But sometimes I really feel sad to see some of the animals being kept in captivity with no freedom to how animals should be like living in the wild. For example, Inuka our very own locally born-and-bred Polar Bear is now all alone ever since its mother Sheba, died in 2012 at the age of 35. Always can't bear to look at it all alone :(


We went over to 奇味雞煲 at Upper Serangoon Road to have our dinner since its raining and we are craving for something hot and soupy. Loving our dinner tonight because the soup is filled with the ginger which will give you that burning sensation when you drank the soup hehe.

Saturday, 24 June 2017

Dinner @ Bedok 85

Lalala we're going to 85 Bedok North Road hawker for our dinner. So happy because we love the BBQ stingray, cockles, BBQ chicken wings, Bak Chor Mee and the very very nice Otah Otah ^_^ Always feel happy to be able to drive the girlfriend to wherever she feels like going for our dinner. Thereafter we went over to Giant for a walk and also get the Steamer so that the girlfriend can iron her dresses with ease.


Tuesday, 20 June 2017

Our love nest: Punggol NorthShore Updates

It's been quite awhile since we drove over to check out the progress of our Build-to-Order project, the Northshore Residences at Punggol. So happy when we saw that the project is progressing really fast now. Can't wait to have our own house to call our home hehe.

Bringing the doggies out with us for a walk and to check out our BTO project.


What really excites me was the latest news of the future development of a Punggol Coast MRT station in the near future. This will definitely be of good convenience to all of us next time since Punggol is considered by many to be a very Ulu place in Singapore lol.